What does it mean to be kind? Kindness can be interpreted in a multitude of ways, but in my opinion, as an escort. Kindness is a consistent consideration for my client’s feelings & needs. It’s asking myself: what does this person need from me during our time spent together? & more importantly, how do I endeavour to meet them?
Look … we live in a world where anybody can claim that they offer the girlfriend experience provided they have a few good photos and an internet connection. But what does the GFE really entail?
Well, as an ebony escort offering GFE, I reckon kindness, intimacy and connection should be prioritised above all else.
Intimacy, after all, is not synonymous with sex, at least not 100% of the time. There are countless ways I love to create intimacy with my clients, & it’s often through these moments that kindness & connection naturally unfold.
Some of my favourite ways include (but are certainly not limited to):
Cuddling together, laying my head on your chest (and vice versa), hugs when we meet and when we part, holding hands in public (if you’re comfortable), back scratches, slow dancing to your favourite song(s) (swoooon), lingering eye contact while we flirt (I looooove a steady gaze), sensual oil massages, discovering our erogenous zones together, playing with my hair, secret jokes only we understand, neck kisses, deep and meaningful conversations about life, and that beautiful feeling of raw vulnerability & safety when we’re together.
I want you to feel seen & understood.
I genuinely want to hear about your life, your favourite books, the music that moves you, fantasies, and your thoughts. I want you to stop performing. Because the truth is, the average man performs constantly for the outside world.
Of course sexual acts of intimacy will follow during our time together (I am a sexy naughty minx 😉), but I believe it’s important to know exactly what you’re stepping into. Everyone is different, and everyone desires different things … that’s just life. Much like how some people crave McDonald’s, while others savour a three-course meal at a Michelin-starred restaurant.
And over here … in Ada’s world, I absolutely adore the GFE experience with clients who prioritise slow & meaningful experiences over rushed, in-and-out encounters.
If it resonates with you … and I suspect it does, because you’re reading my blog … you’re more than welcome to reach out.
Let’s get this party started.
💋Until then,
Ada
