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Il Dolce Far Niente
ByAda Rose June 12, 2026June 12, 2026

Il dolce far niente.

The sweetness of doing nothing.

No, I’ve never watched Eat Pray Love, despite that being the rabbit hole this phrase sends you down when you Google it. I found this phrase while browsing r/simpleliving on Reddit and it piqued my interest.

I have been trying to detach myself from hustle culture. The idea that my worth as a human being is tied to my salary/my job title. That every moment must be productive. That I must solely seek to climb the corporate ladder & live in a bigger house, wear luxury brand clothing, vacation in the richest postcodes etc. It never ends.

I think a lot of us are overstimulated to the point where we passively go through life ticking boxes/accomplishments and never in the moment. Physically present but mentally a million miles away.

What if I told you that some of the best moments in my life happen on a Saturday morning? Sitting on my balcony, enjoying a cup of tea. The trees are moving gently in the breeze & my neighbour’s cute cat is perched by the window also watching the world go by. There is nowhere I need to be & nothing I need to accomplish. I am just simply there.

At dinner, I want to soak up the atmosphere of the establishment we’re at. I want to stare into your eyes and listen carefully when you tell me about your life. I want to savour the taste of the wine that you have carefully selected for us (okay if you don’t drink too :)) and discover a dish I have never tried before. I want to learn how to properly eat a shrimp like a cultured woman & laugh at my inevitable faux pas.

Connection to matter more than aesthetics.

Presence to matter more than performance.

Experience to matter more than evidence.

Unrushed. Deluxe. A Moment. An Experience.

Il dolce far niente.

Life has become far more vivid when I’ve stopped trying to turn every second of it into something useful.

💋Until then,

Ada
Call Her Daddy
ByAda Rose June 4, 2026June 4, 2026

Have you ever been in the presence of a goddess?

Some women ask for attention. Others simply expect it.

I don’t chase admiration. Admiration arrives on its own.

I enjoy being adored. I enjoy being prioritized. I enjoy the quiet understanding that my presence is a privilege, not a guarantee.

Call it devotion. Call it worship. Call it whatever you like.

I prefer Daddy.

The best things in life aren’t owned.

They’re worshipped.

Now worship your goddess.

💋 Until then,

Ada
London is Melting
ByAda Rose May 26, 2026May 26, 2026

Gentlemen! Can you believe it?! 35 degrees today in London … & somehow I’m still hotter 😉

So how are you surviving the heatwave? Are you escaping the city to travel like you promised yourself in January. Less working, more relaxing, remember? Or are you making the most of it? Stretched out at a beer garden with your mates? Sipping cocktails at a swanky rooftop bar? Binge watching your favourite shows with the fan pointed directly at you? Maybe you’ve even become one of those people suddenly obsessed with grilled barbeques or ‘summer salads’.

Or … are you on my site, refreshing my blog everyday for new pictures & daydreaming about what it could be like to spend some time with me?

Well … If you’re looking for a way to cool off in the city, I have a few ideas. We could disappear for a dip somewhere discreet, then spend the afternoon by a rooftop bar clinking our glasses to some fine champagne/wine while the sun starts to soften. Bonus points if said rooftop bar has some good music because I do like to move my body. Jackpot if we can have interesting conversations about why you’re scared of AI, or maybe you can simply sit there admiring me in awe. I’ll allow it.

30 degrees in London !== 30 degrees in Bologna. The infrastructure here in London was simply not built for this kind of drama.

Still, complaining about the weather until it turns grey again is basically a British pastime, isn’t it?

💋Until then,

Ada
Agent 007: Mission Compromised
ByAda Rose May 21, 2026May 26, 2026

On a sillier note hahaha …

💋Until then,

Ada
Chelsea FC Blue is the Colour 💙💙
ByAda Rose May 20, 2026May 21, 2026

Yesterday evening, I had the opportunity to watch the Chelsea FC vs Tottenham Hotspur FC match at Stamford Bridge. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m certainly not a football connoisseur but I grew up in a sport-orientated family and we bonded so much over the Premier League, the World Cup, the NBA, the Olympics – marathons especially. *bats eyes in East African*. So I’m totally game to watch a match. I actually get ridiculously passionate when I’m invested haha.

The atmosphere at Stamford bridge was extraordinary. I genuinely think watching a live football match should be on everyone’s bucket list simply because of the aura & energy that fills the stadium. The dinner experience was lovely as well – me & my sweet tooth; God help us all!

My favourite part though was mumbling along to the songs the true Chelsea FC fans were singing … actually chanting! Just being silly & having a good time! I was on the edge of my seat during those final 7 minutes of added time after 90th minute. You could literally feel the tension radiating through the stadium.

And of course … we won!!!

My ego has convinced me it was because of my good luck hahaha.

& Yes … I will absolutely cheer for your favourite team. No guarantees for Arsenal FC fans😆

My gratitude goes to the special gentleman that made this experience possible. It’s definitely etched in my mind 😘

💋Until then,

Ada
Copenhagen, jeg vælger
ByAda Rose May 8, 2026May 21, 2026

Man skal nyde, mens man kanDet vælger jeg

Jeg vælger at tage frække billeder på femstjernede hoteller.
Jeg vælger friske, kalorierige kanelsnegle fra Sankt Peders Bageri.
Jeg vælger at slentre rundt i Nyhavn i ti minutter og så gå videre til de mere interessante steder.
Jeg vælger at bruge timer på Ny Carlsberg Glyptotek og gå på opdagelse i de egyptiske og græske udstillinger.
Jeg vælger Michelin Guide-anbefalede mexicanske restauranter til sjove solo-middage i København.
Jeg vælger at vandre formålsløst rundt i byen og bare suge det hele til mig.
Jeg vælger smørrebrød og snaps som erstatning for afternoon tea.
Jeg vælger nydelse uden undskyldninger.
Jeg vælger nysgerrighed frem for faste planer.
Jeg vælger et liv fyldt med smag, skønhed og historier, der er værd at huske.

Hvad vælger du?

💋Indtil da,

Ada
Little London Joys
ByAda Rose May 7, 2026May 26, 2026

I’ve recently picked up cycling and Pilates (I will update with a sexy picture next time. I was absolutely dying at my first session lol, my sincere apologies to my keen readers). However, the body results are incredible already. The cycling came from a recommendation by someone who is slowly becoming one of my favourite human beings. I don’t say that lightly. Helmet hair of course. The one time I’m not sexy when I’m riding haha😜

Another favourite pastime lately has been exploring the different London neighbourhoods. Last weekend it was Greenwich & Blackheath. The park is tremendous! Do yourself a favour and go for the views alone. There’s something so calming about being surrounded by lush greenery & fresh air in the middle of London. What’s your favourite Little London? Perhaps we can explore together 🙂

And Lastly, let’s not forget eating ice cream. It’s 2 scoops or nothing🍦. This is as *insert higher being* intended for it to be. Enjoying the little things always feels like a win in my book

💋Until then,

Ada
A Love Letter to Newcastle 💌
ByAda Rose April 27, 2026April 18, 2026

Dear Newcastle,

I still don’t quite know how you did it.

Between arriving as a stranger and now feeling like my second home. You quietly worked your way into my life in ways I didn’t expect. You were never just a place.

You were the people. Super friendly and the kind who address you as ‘pet’ or ‘luv’ as a sort of endearment. The first time I heard it, I was so confused but strangely … intrigued.

I will be honest. I will never crack the geordie accent and there have been very many moments where I just nodded along hoping context would save me. You never made me feel out of place for not quite getting everything straight away.

In the middle of all this, I changed. It was here that my evolution began. It was here that I realized I have bigger ambitions. My dreams are so big, they’re super-sized & I chase them like I chase the light. You gave me time to figure things out and grow. And now I’m leaving.

London is next. Bigger & better. I know it’ll be exciting but I also know it won’t give me that ease right from the start & perhaps that’s what I need right now. Farewell Newcastle.

You’re something I don’t quite know how to leave behind.

💋Until then,

An Adopted Geordie xx
A Quiet Moment of Honesty
ByAda Rose April 2, 2026April 2, 2026

Today, I feel like being a little more honest than usual. In my world as an independent escort. I’m expected to always be a certain kind of woman. Composed, warm, engaging, put together … a little bit effortless. But today, I’m reminding myself that I am also a human being.

The past couple of weeks have been unexpectedly intense. The kind of experience that catches you off guard and stays with you longer than you’d like. I won’t go into the details but it’s been a huge moment of reflection for me. I’ve felt a wider range of emotions than I’m used to allowing myself. And If I’m honest, there were moments where I didn’t handle things gracefully as I would have liked. It’s not something I usually admit but it’s the truth.

Do you ever feel like that? I think one of the hardest things is holding yourself accountable while also trying to forgive yourself. Accepting that you misjudged something. That you got it wrong. That no one owes you anything and maybe they never did. It’s a harsh truth but it is what it is. So today, I’m not trying to fix it or spin it into something neat or meaningful. I’m just sitting with the uncomfortable feelings.

This experience has made me more aware of the things that truly matter. The simple things. Fresh air on a morning walk. A moment of calm. The people who check in unprompted, just to make sure you’re okay. That kind of thoughtfulness doesn’t go unnoticed.

So today, I’m choosing to slow down a little. To reflect. And to feel grateful for the good moments, the lessons, and for the people who bring warmth into my life.

And perhaps it’s a gentle reminder for you too. Take a moment to notice what’s quietly good in your own world.

💋Until then,

Ada
Stockholm 🇸🇪, February 2026
ByAda Rose March 4, 2026March 4, 2026

I think in another lifetime, I might have been a Scandinavian woman.

I’m drawn to the calm public spaces, the quiet social culture, the beautiful nature woven so seamlessly into daily life, the architecture, the effortless Swedish minimalism. This city will always hold a special place in my heart.

During my time in Stockholm, I met wonderful new gentlemen and reconnected with my faithful old regulars. There is something so lovely about returning to a city and knowing there are familiar faces waiting to welcome you back.

Some of my favourite moments were with my älskling at a dark, sensual cocktail bar, sipping wine and talking about everything from work to our current reads, to how much we missed each other :). Another highlight was dinner at Ekstedt; a Michelin-starred experience that felt intimate, refined, and unforgettable.

Although much of my five days were delightfully preoccupied with dates, I intentionally carved out solo time. As a quasi-introvert, I cherish solo experiences. Wandering through Gamla stan midweek while it was less touristy, taking it all in, and of course purchasing a specific tea that somehow tastes like Stockholm (I need a whole separate post about my tea obsession lol).

I also explored neighbourhoods beyond the city centre. Stadshagen, Östermalm, and Sundbyberg. Experiencing daily Swedish life during the off-peak season was deeply appealing. And let me say, Swedish people being “boring” is slander that will not be tolerated here haha.

As someone with a serious sweet tooth, Stockholm is my Valhalla. Especially during semlor season; the cardamom-spiced bun filled with almond paste & cream that appears before Lent. I was on a hunt for the best konditori in the city, and shout out to Lillebrors Bageri, absolutely insane semlor and cardamom buns. Café Pascal for the ambience. Fabrique, a chain, yes, but the buns were still delicious. I have more to try next time, but Lillebrors wins by a landslide.

On my final afternoon, I treated myself to afternoon tea at the Grand Hôtel Stockholm. Where do I even begin? The presentation was immaculate. The attention to detail from the servers was mind-blowing. Impeccable service, a luxurious atmosphere, and views of the pier with yachts from my seat. What an indulgence & completely deserved.

This trip revealed the type of woman I am slowly becoming. The word is vivant. I live in the moment. I’m grateful for the gentlemen I’ve met along the way. And I am living … for me.

Stockholm… I will be back.

💋Until then,

Ada